"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IOIs?

OlympicTim

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Whats up guys theirs this chick i want to smash that I work with.

We talk a little bit at work and never outside of work.

I think Im getting IOIs but i could be reading it wrong.

I got really blackout drunk one night and messaged her on fb asking her out on facebook. She just made fun of me for it but never said yes or no
Also she
She asked me if I had a girlfriend
Always calls me a nickname never the name I go by (Tim)
Notice her smiling when she sees me.
I hurt myself today and had to go to the hospital (need stitches) she messaged me on fb asking if I was okay.

As i typed this I realized she seems into me but the ract that I asked her out on facebook and she didnt say yes makes me think she isnt (Yes i know how beta that was i dont need to hear it i was very drunk)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blind_one

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Its a part time job I get minimum wage

If it was my career id understand. That but I can easily find a new job
I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OlympicTim

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I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
Im still 19 starting school in september for an actual career.
 

old_skoolr

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So ask her out and see what she says.

Gotta start doing it now, so you learn when your older.
 

Lozboss

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Analysis paralysis.

1. Ask her for her PHONE number. If she says no you then ghost her and ignore her in person.
2. If yes- you hit her up the next day when you know she won't be working and ask her out.
3. Yes- good. No- see step 1.
 

raider87

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Eye contact followed by a little smile is pretty much what most women do to show interest.
 
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