"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IOIs?

OlympicTim

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Whats up guys theirs this chick i want to smash that I work with.

We talk a little bit at work and never outside of work.

I think Im getting IOIs but i could be reading it wrong.

I got really blackout drunk one night and messaged her on fb asking her out on facebook. She just made fun of me for it but never said yes or no
Also she
She asked me if I had a girlfriend
Always calls me a nickname never the name I go by (Tim)
Notice her smiling when she sees me.
I hurt myself today and had to go to the hospital (need stitches) she messaged me on fb asking if I was okay.

As i typed this I realized she seems into me but the ract that I asked her out on facebook and she didnt say yes makes me think she isnt (Yes i know how beta that was i dont need to hear it i was very drunk)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blind_one

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Its a part time job I get minimum wage

If it was my career id understand. That but I can easily find a new job
I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OlympicTim

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I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
Im still 19 starting school in september for an actual career.
 

old_skoolr

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So ask her out and see what she says.

Gotta start doing it now, so you learn when your older.
 

Lozboss

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Analysis paralysis.

1. Ask her for her PHONE number. If she says no you then ghost her and ignore her in person.
2. If yes- you hit her up the next day when you know she won't be working and ask her out.
3. Yes- good. No- see step 1.
 

raider87

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Eye contact followed by a little smile is pretty much what most women do to show interest.
 
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