Im not really sure of this, i sit a few seats to the right of this cute chick, everytime im looking at the front of the class where the teachers at ( the seats are set up awkward) she turns her head really fast and gets a quick glance at m e then turns back around, she did this like 10 times today, I was talking to my friend who sits in front of me and i got caught by the teacher so he moves me behind her and one seat to the left, so diagonally behind her. She does the same thing while im sitting in my different seat also, really quick glance and looks away? IOI? Also, she was gone from class for about 2 months because i heard she got into a bad accident and got some metal in her leg, im not completely sure of this, so ima try to talk to her tomorrow and say something like " Hey why have you been gone so long?"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ioi?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well, it sounds like she's PURPOSELY wanting you to notice she's looking at you so that you'll go talk to her.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah thats fine say that. anyways it sounds to me like she actually likes you man. remember chicks arent going to look at you much if they dont like you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
show wont be sprinting on that leg of hers
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Ha, now you got the whole badass thing goin for you. If you talk to her she'll ask you about it and BAM! there's your starting conversation.HandyAndy said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Dude you and I are pretty similar. I used to and am still struggling with keeping conversations going (esp. on the phone). Really, just talk about anything. Once you establish rapport with the girl, talk about her and her life. How things are, etc. It sucks when a girl isn't very talkative herself, but learning to be a good conversationalist is a whole category itself in the game of becoming a DJ.
Ive tried to talk to her today, i know im making a big deal out of just talking to someone, but the situation just doesnt let me! Its in class while the teacher is talking, she sits a few seats away from me and she leaves really quick after class, and she seems less interested, she doesnt really look over anymore... probably becuase I didnt make a move early enough right?
LostAndConfused
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Probably....i forgot who said it here but someone said: "Patience is a virgin."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well sheet son if you're still struggling with this just talk to her before class and say, "hey lemme walk you to your next class I wanna talk to you about X"
there ya go bro
there ya go bro