Im not really sure of this, i sit a few seats to the right of this cute chick, everytime im looking at the front of the class where the teachers at ( the seats are set up awkward) she turns her head really fast and gets a quick glance at m e then turns back around, she did this like 10 times today, I was talking to my friend who sits in front of me and i got caught by the teacher so he moves me behind her and one seat to the left, so diagonally behind her. She does the same thing while im sitting in my different seat also, really quick glance and looks away? IOI? Also, she was gone from class for about 2 months because i heard she got into a bad accident and got some metal in her leg, im not completely sure of this, so ima try to talk to her tomorrow and say something like " Hey why have you been gone so long?"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ioi?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well, it sounds like she's PURPOSELY wanting you to notice she's looking at you so that you'll go talk to her.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah thats fine say that. anyways it sounds to me like she actually likes you man. remember chicks arent going to look at you much if they dont like you.
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Supremo
Senior Don Juan
show wont be sprinting on that leg of hers
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Ha, now you got the whole badass thing goin for you. If you talk to her she'll ask you about it and BAM! there's your starting conversation.HandyAndy said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Dude you and I are pretty similar. I used to and am still struggling with keeping conversations going (esp. on the phone). Really, just talk about anything. Once you establish rapport with the girl, talk about her and her life. How things are, etc. It sucks when a girl isn't very talkative herself, but learning to be a good conversationalist is a whole category itself in the game of becoming a DJ.
Ive tried to talk to her today, i know im making a big deal out of just talking to someone, but the situation just doesnt let me! Its in class while the teacher is talking, she sits a few seats away from me and she leaves really quick after class, and she seems less interested, she doesnt really look over anymore... probably becuase I didnt make a move early enough right?
LostAndConfused
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Probably....i forgot who said it here but someone said: "Patience is a virgin."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well sheet son if you're still struggling with this just talk to her before class and say, "hey lemme walk you to your next class I wanna talk to you about X"
there ya go bro
there ya go bro