Im not really sure of this, i sit a few seats to the right of this cute chick, everytime im looking at the front of the class where the teachers at ( the seats are set up awkward) she turns her head really fast and gets a quick glance at m e then turns back around, she did this like 10 times today, I was talking to my friend who sits in front of me and i got caught by the teacher so he moves me behind her and one seat to the left, so diagonally behind her. She does the same thing while im sitting in my different seat also, really quick glance and looks away? IOI? Also, she was gone from class for about 2 months because i heard she got into a bad accident and got some metal in her leg, im not completely sure of this, so ima try to talk to her tomorrow and say something like " Hey why have you been gone so long?"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ioi?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well, it sounds like she's PURPOSELY wanting you to notice she's looking at you so that you'll go talk to her.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
So, go talk to her.
I'd be careful on the subject of her accident, if that really happened. Let her bring it up.
But whatever works man, I'd definitely say it's an IOI.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah thats fine say that. anyways it sounds to me like she actually likes you man. remember chicks arent going to look at you much if they dont like you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
show wont be sprinting on that leg of hers
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
kiidddiinnnggg. but i loled at my own joke ill admit
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Ha, now you got the whole badass thing goin for you. If you talk to her she'll ask you about it and BAM! there's your starting conversation.HandyAndy said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Dude you and I are pretty similar. I used to and am still struggling with keeping conversations going (esp. on the phone). Really, just talk about anything. Once you establish rapport with the girl, talk about her and her life. How things are, etc. It sucks when a girl isn't very talkative herself, but learning to be a good conversationalist is a whole category itself in the game of becoming a DJ.
Ive tried to talk to her today, i know im making a big deal out of just talking to someone, but the situation just doesnt let me! Its in class while the teacher is talking, she sits a few seats away from me and she leaves really quick after class, and she seems less interested, she doesnt really look over anymore... probably becuase I didnt make a move early enough right?
LostAndConfused
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Probably....i forgot who said it here but someone said: "Patience is a virgin."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Well sheet son if you're still struggling with this just talk to her before class and say, "hey lemme walk you to your next class I wanna talk to you about X"
there ya go bro
there ya go bro