"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Invisible Women

JonnyBGood

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My first post: A few days ago I was on the phone with my girl "friend" and a girl from school who is about a HB8 who I had never met was over at my friend's house. My friend had to use the restroom or something and she put the HB8 on the phone and I was kind of at a loss for what to say. Do you guys have anything to say for this situation? What do you say when you cant see the girl you're talking to? PS if you have anything for instant messages and text messages I want to know that too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tongs

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Talk as if she was right in front of you.

It isn't that hard.
 

JonnyBGood

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Well I meant because there isn't any clothing or anything like that to give any stuff to be c&f with or anything
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Could also made fun of your girl "friend" eg ("is she alright i can hear the farts from here!","does it smell as bad as it sounds?","was she backstabbing me again? come one you can tell me,she called me X didn't she?"),making fun of your common friend in a playful manner creates alot of rapport.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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when i read invisible i clicked on this thread. it really isnt about an invisible woman at all, its really about a women you never met before on the phone.

just be as witty as ever because you never know if you will get to meet her or not. the wittier you are, the better the chances.
 

GaryUranga

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make fun of the situation she's in "are you havign an orgy or something?" ok that might not be the best thing to say.. but something that makes fun of them being together seems like a good idea to me
 
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