"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Invisible Women

JonnyBGood

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My first post: A few days ago I was on the phone with my girl "friend" and a girl from school who is about a HB8 who I had never met was over at my friend's house. My friend had to use the restroom or something and she put the HB8 on the phone and I was kind of at a loss for what to say. Do you guys have anything to say for this situation? What do you say when you cant see the girl you're talking to? PS if you have anything for instant messages and text messages I want to know that too
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tongs

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Talk as if she was right in front of you.

It isn't that hard.
 

JonnyBGood

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Well I meant because there isn't any clothing or anything like that to give any stuff to be c&f with or anything
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Could also made fun of your girl "friend" eg ("is she alright i can hear the farts from here!","does it smell as bad as it sounds?","was she backstabbing me again? come one you can tell me,she called me X didn't she?"),making fun of your common friend in a playful manner creates alot of rapport.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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when i read invisible i clicked on this thread. it really isnt about an invisible woman at all, its really about a women you never met before on the phone.

just be as witty as ever because you never know if you will get to meet her or not. the wittier you are, the better the chances.
 

GaryUranga

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make fun of the situation she's in "are you havign an orgy or something?" ok that might not be the best thing to say.. but something that makes fun of them being together seems like a good idea to me
 
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