"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Invisible Women

JonnyBGood

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My first post: A few days ago I was on the phone with my girl "friend" and a girl from school who is about a HB8 who I had never met was over at my friend's house. My friend had to use the restroom or something and she put the HB8 on the phone and I was kind of at a loss for what to say. Do you guys have anything to say for this situation? What do you say when you cant see the girl you're talking to? PS if you have anything for instant messages and text messages I want to know that too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tongs

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Talk as if she was right in front of you.

It isn't that hard.
 

JonnyBGood

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Well I meant because there isn't any clothing or anything like that to give any stuff to be c&f with or anything
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Could also made fun of your girl "friend" eg ("is she alright i can hear the farts from here!","does it smell as bad as it sounds?","was she backstabbing me again? come one you can tell me,she called me X didn't she?"),making fun of your common friend in a playful manner creates alot of rapport.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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when i read invisible i clicked on this thread. it really isnt about an invisible woman at all, its really about a women you never met before on the phone.

just be as witty as ever because you never know if you will get to meet her or not. the wittier you are, the better the chances.
 

GaryUranga

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make fun of the situation she's in "are you havign an orgy or something?" ok that might not be the best thing to say.. but something that makes fun of them being together seems like a good idea to me
 
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