"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Introverted or extroverted?

crackers444

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I am wondering, Is it best for guys to to stick with girls who have similar personality types to theirs, ie: introverted or extroverted. I am rather introverted, and it is sometimes more easier to connect with people who are of my personality than extroverted personality type.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KnockoutJM

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i actually find it easier to be with a girl of the oppositte, and people of the oppositte in general in 1v1 situations.. That way one person tends to lead, adn the other is a complement
 

The Sperminator

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I'm more on the introverted side. I like girls usually in between. If they are too much extroverted they usually like to party, go to clubs, hang out with other ppl all the time and thats not me. But I like them to be a little bit extroverted bc they tend to make me more extorverted and it's more exciting.
 

speakeasy

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I'm somewhat toward the introverted side and I prefer girls that are either dead in the center or somewhat more extraverted. I wouldn't want a girl that's extremely extroverted, it would drain my energy. Being around such girls even just as friends can become tiring.
 

Hitman10000

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Introvert here, while I can communicate to either ones, I tend to prefer Feminine extroverted types. Specifically Meyers-Briggs: ENFJ/ENFP.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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