"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Introverted or extroverted?

crackers444

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I am wondering, Is it best for guys to to stick with girls who have similar personality types to theirs, ie: introverted or extroverted. I am rather introverted, and it is sometimes more easier to connect with people who are of my personality than extroverted personality type.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KnockoutJM

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i actually find it easier to be with a girl of the oppositte, and people of the oppositte in general in 1v1 situations.. That way one person tends to lead, adn the other is a complement
 

The Sperminator

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I'm more on the introverted side. I like girls usually in between. If they are too much extroverted they usually like to party, go to clubs, hang out with other ppl all the time and thats not me. But I like them to be a little bit extroverted bc they tend to make me more extorverted and it's more exciting.
 

speakeasy

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I'm somewhat toward the introverted side and I prefer girls that are either dead in the center or somewhat more extraverted. I wouldn't want a girl that's extremely extroverted, it would drain my energy. Being around such girls even just as friends can become tiring.
 

Hitman10000

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Introvert here, while I can communicate to either ones, I tend to prefer Feminine extroverted types. Specifically Meyers-Briggs: ENFJ/ENFP.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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