"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Introverted or extroverted?

crackers444

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I am wondering, Is it best for guys to to stick with girls who have similar personality types to theirs, ie: introverted or extroverted. I am rather introverted, and it is sometimes more easier to connect with people who are of my personality than extroverted personality type.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KnockoutJM

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i actually find it easier to be with a girl of the oppositte, and people of the oppositte in general in 1v1 situations.. That way one person tends to lead, adn the other is a complement
 

The Sperminator

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I'm more on the introverted side. I like girls usually in between. If they are too much extroverted they usually like to party, go to clubs, hang out with other ppl all the time and thats not me. But I like them to be a little bit extroverted bc they tend to make me more extorverted and it's more exciting.
 

speakeasy

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I'm somewhat toward the introverted side and I prefer girls that are either dead in the center or somewhat more extraverted. I wouldn't want a girl that's extremely extroverted, it would drain my energy. Being around such girls even just as friends can become tiring.
 

Hitman10000

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Introvert here, while I can communicate to either ones, I tend to prefer Feminine extroverted types. Specifically Meyers-Briggs: ENFJ/ENFP.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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