"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Introverted or extroverted?

crackers444

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I am wondering, Is it best for guys to to stick with girls who have similar personality types to theirs, ie: introverted or extroverted. I am rather introverted, and it is sometimes more easier to connect with people who are of my personality than extroverted personality type.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KnockoutJM

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i actually find it easier to be with a girl of the oppositte, and people of the oppositte in general in 1v1 situations.. That way one person tends to lead, adn the other is a complement
 

The Sperminator

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I'm more on the introverted side. I like girls usually in between. If they are too much extroverted they usually like to party, go to clubs, hang out with other ppl all the time and thats not me. But I like them to be a little bit extroverted bc they tend to make me more extorverted and it's more exciting.
 

speakeasy

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I'm somewhat toward the introverted side and I prefer girls that are either dead in the center or somewhat more extraverted. I wouldn't want a girl that's extremely extroverted, it would drain my energy. Being around such girls even just as friends can become tiring.
 

Hitman10000

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Introvert here, while I can communicate to either ones, I tend to prefer Feminine extroverted types. Specifically Meyers-Briggs: ENFJ/ENFP.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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