"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Introduction Of Myself

Newbie05

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Hi guy's, my name's Steve and i've find out about the seduction community not so long ago so i'm a newbie to the game..., i found fastseduction.com after reading dyd e-book, and was surprised to find a large community of people from Australia, it be good to make a few friends on here and find what everyone has to say.

Just today, i have set myself specific goals after reading some self help articles, i'm determined for success.

Please give any new pointers for a newbie, i've found about sosuave through fastseduction.com threads.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bradshaw

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First, read the DJ Bible (top right of the screen).

Second, do the bootcamp so you can apply what you have learned. You can also see what your strengths are, and what you need to improve on.

Third, go to the tips section. Do a ‘sort’ on ranking. Read the posts that have a five star ranking.

Fourth, search through the archive. The best posts often get moved there.


You don’t have to do them entirely in this order and you could do some of the steps at the same time. This is just what worked for me

Good luck!
 

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Hey thanks for your feedback.

I'm not the type of guy to be reading for 6 weeks without any action, so i be more interested in the bootcamp actually thinking of integrating a week exercises into my own bootcamp i have created for myself.


Have you bought david deangelo's program? He seems to have a bootcamp of his own, i've ordered it last Thursday :)
 

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Hey Newbie05,

The bootcamp (on this site) helped more than anything else.

DeAngelo’s stuff is also very good. I also am in the middle of reading Without Embarassment by Pilinski. This is book is really underrated IMO. He talks about a fear of approaching, as opposed to a fear of rejection. Example, you see a girl giving you all the signals (low probability of rejection), yet you are still avoiding approach.
 

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yeah, i have heard a good recommendation on his book through fastseduction.com.

There's so much material, but i'm willing to have patience and focus on my inner self first.

Hey, can you provide your own personal experience on how you gained your confidence in yourself? Like for example what actions you specifically took? Thansks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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