"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Introduction Of Myself

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Hi guy's, my name's Steve and i've find out about the seduction community not so long ago so i'm a newbie to the game..., i found fastseduction.com after reading dyd e-book, and was surprised to find a large community of people from Australia, it be good to make a few friends on here and find what everyone has to say.

Just today, i have set myself specific goals after reading some self help articles, i'm determined for success.

Please give any new pointers for a newbie, i've found about sosuave through fastseduction.com threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First, read the DJ Bible (top right of the screen).

Second, do the bootcamp so you can apply what you have learned. You can also see what your strengths are, and what you need to improve on.

Third, go to the tips section. Do a ‘sort’ on ranking. Read the posts that have a five star ranking.

Fourth, search through the archive. The best posts often get moved there.


You don’t have to do them entirely in this order and you could do some of the steps at the same time. This is just what worked for me

Good luck!
 

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Hey thanks for your feedback.

I'm not the type of guy to be reading for 6 weeks without any action, so i be more interested in the bootcamp actually thinking of integrating a week exercises into my own bootcamp i have created for myself.


Have you bought david deangelo's program? He seems to have a bootcamp of his own, i've ordered it last Thursday :)
 

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Hey Newbie05,

The bootcamp (on this site) helped more than anything else.

DeAngelo’s stuff is also very good. I also am in the middle of reading Without Embarassment by Pilinski. This is book is really underrated IMO. He talks about a fear of approaching, as opposed to a fear of rejection. Example, you see a girl giving you all the signals (low probability of rejection), yet you are still avoiding approach.
 

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yeah, i have heard a good recommendation on his book through fastseduction.com.

There's so much material, but i'm willing to have patience and focus on my inner self first.

Hey, can you provide your own personal experience on how you gained your confidence in yourself? Like for example what actions you specifically took? Thansks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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