"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Introduction Of Myself

Newbie05

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Hi guy's, my name's Steve and i've find out about the seduction community not so long ago so i'm a newbie to the game..., i found fastseduction.com after reading dyd e-book, and was surprised to find a large community of people from Australia, it be good to make a few friends on here and find what everyone has to say.

Just today, i have set myself specific goals after reading some self help articles, i'm determined for success.

Please give any new pointers for a newbie, i've found about sosuave through fastseduction.com threads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bradshaw

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First, read the DJ Bible (top right of the screen).

Second, do the bootcamp so you can apply what you have learned. You can also see what your strengths are, and what you need to improve on.

Third, go to the tips section. Do a ‘sort’ on ranking. Read the posts that have a five star ranking.

Fourth, search through the archive. The best posts often get moved there.


You don’t have to do them entirely in this order and you could do some of the steps at the same time. This is just what worked for me

Good luck!
 

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Hey thanks for your feedback.

I'm not the type of guy to be reading for 6 weeks without any action, so i be more interested in the bootcamp actually thinking of integrating a week exercises into my own bootcamp i have created for myself.


Have you bought david deangelo's program? He seems to have a bootcamp of his own, i've ordered it last Thursday :)
 

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Hey Newbie05,

The bootcamp (on this site) helped more than anything else.

DeAngelo’s stuff is also very good. I also am in the middle of reading Without Embarassment by Pilinski. This is book is really underrated IMO. He talks about a fear of approaching, as opposed to a fear of rejection. Example, you see a girl giving you all the signals (low probability of rejection), yet you are still avoiding approach.
 

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yeah, i have heard a good recommendation on his book through fastseduction.com.

There's so much material, but i'm willing to have patience and focus on my inner self first.

Hey, can you provide your own personal experience on how you gained your confidence in yourself? Like for example what actions you specifically took? Thansks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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