"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Introduction Of Myself

Newbie05

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Hi guy's, my name's Steve and i've find out about the seduction community not so long ago so i'm a newbie to the game..., i found fastseduction.com after reading dyd e-book, and was surprised to find a large community of people from Australia, it be good to make a few friends on here and find what everyone has to say.

Just today, i have set myself specific goals after reading some self help articles, i'm determined for success.

Please give any new pointers for a newbie, i've found about sosuave through fastseduction.com threads.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bradshaw

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First, read the DJ Bible (top right of the screen).

Second, do the bootcamp so you can apply what you have learned. You can also see what your strengths are, and what you need to improve on.

Third, go to the tips section. Do a ‘sort’ on ranking. Read the posts that have a five star ranking.

Fourth, search through the archive. The best posts often get moved there.


You don’t have to do them entirely in this order and you could do some of the steps at the same time. This is just what worked for me

Good luck!
 

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Hey thanks for your feedback.

I'm not the type of guy to be reading for 6 weeks without any action, so i be more interested in the bootcamp actually thinking of integrating a week exercises into my own bootcamp i have created for myself.


Have you bought david deangelo's program? He seems to have a bootcamp of his own, i've ordered it last Thursday :)
 

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Hey Newbie05,

The bootcamp (on this site) helped more than anything else.

DeAngelo’s stuff is also very good. I also am in the middle of reading Without Embarassment by Pilinski. This is book is really underrated IMO. He talks about a fear of approaching, as opposed to a fear of rejection. Example, you see a girl giving you all the signals (low probability of rejection), yet you are still avoiding approach.
 

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yeah, i have heard a good recommendation on his book through fastseduction.com.

There's so much material, but i'm willing to have patience and focus on my inner self first.

Hey, can you provide your own personal experience on how you gained your confidence in yourself? Like for example what actions you specifically took? Thansks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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