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A couple of women have expressed that I have a presence that intimidates them. I've thought that they find me attractive but since they're a little shy, they think that I'm unapproachable. Why do you guys think that is?
 
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A couple of women have expressed that I have a presence that intimidates them. I've thought that they find me attractive but since they're a little shy, they think that I'm unapproachable. Why do you guys think that is?
Its good as long as they trust you and feel relaxed around u also
 

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Why do you guys think that is?
Why do you think that is? You know yourself better than we do. Are you physically imposing (tall, muscular, lotta tats)? Are you aloof, don't smile much, aren't very friendly?

It's interesting to think about the differences between "intimidating" and "dominant" though. Plus Rollo used to talk about having a "command" presence.
 

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Why do you think that is? You know yourself better than we do. Are you physically imposing (tall, muscular, lotta tats)? Are you aloof, don't smile much, aren't very friendly?

It's interesting to think about the differences between "intimidating" and "dominant" though. Plus Rollo used to talk about having a "command" presence.
It's not that I'm not friendly, but it's more of how I walk and talk. So, looking back at these I'd say it's the confidence. Talking to a doo looking chick doesn't faze me, so "dominant" makes a lot more sense.
 
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I've gotten this same comment on a few occasions. If I know the woman already, they'll say it's due to an intelligence difference.

Something else I've been told by these same women is that I have a piercing gaze. If I'm showing a neutral expression or being non-sexual, women won't look at me twice if I look at them, it's like I'm invisible. If I put some sex or aknowing smile in the gaze, there's an automatic change in them and I'll get held looks and smiles most of the time. It's a pretty powerful tool.

The other interesting tidbit, from my experience at least, is that the women who will actually tell you something like that aren't necessarily the smartest girls in the world, but they don't fall for the feminist world view.
 

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A couple of women have expressed that I have a presence that intimidates them. I've thought that they find me attractive but since they're a little shy, they think that I'm unapproachable. Why do you guys think that is?
Soften the eyes/ face. I have what you describe. Jaw/ face/ eyes. Its countered by my stature but I've often been told that in the past. Work on a natural friendly vibe.
 

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Never take what women say at face value. For all we know, she said "intimidating" but what she really wanted to say was that she's not interested.... "Intimidating" might just be her codeword for "off-putting"....

Jeremy Meeks looks intimidating af but that didn't stop women from ooogling him because he's an attractive bad boy.... Dude is a convicted felon but women still threw themselves at him...He's married to a billionaire's daughter now....

I think those females were just politely saying they're not interested...
 

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