"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interracial dating

Do you mix?

  • Yes

    Votes: 69 70.4%
  • No

    Votes: 12 12.2%
  • I've never had the opportunity/ never thought about it

    Votes: 13 13.3%
  • I'm not sure if I would or not

    Votes: 4 4.1%

  • Total voters
    98

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
It's unnatural!
Hahahhahahahahahahaha

That's just beautiful. :)

AS
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Page
Ok, I'll up the ante.

Would you marry and have kids with someone of a different race?
not black or asian
 

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Fatality

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
What a profound stance! :rolleyes:



For why?
I'm not physically attracted to either and I would prefer my kids to be similar to me.
 

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I'd marry outside of my race. I could careless what race I'm with, love goes beyond physical traits...well for some people anyway. Besides I'm biracial anyway (part african american part native american) I'll be damned if I'm going to go hunting for another attractive "hybrid" such as myself, there's a good chance I'd die alone.

I know looking beyond race is a difficult thing to do because being with someone who looks like you has been the standard for countless years but the enlightened mind should realize that people are people regardless of skin color.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you really think about it, isn't race a human construct?

It's just another way for humans to divide each other into neat little categories.

Many of the most fanatic racists are losers (ie. poor, bad with women, no social skills, etc) trying to validate themselves. "I'm part of the grand Aryan race, so I must be superior, even though I'm unemployed and live in my mum's basement!".
 

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please, can we just end this thread now? there is nothing we can do about race, the fact that we have to acknowledge interratial dating as a "do or don't" is an issue within it'self.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
I'm not physically attracted to either
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
I don't think so; attraction is subjective. It's not as if he said that those races were inferior, just that he wasn't attracted to them. It wasn't even based of stereotypical misconceptions which I believe is the main factor for people choosing to segregate.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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who gives a sh1t more fine honeys for me.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
Give me a break. You cannot control or choose who you're attracted to. Sure there are some women of certain races I would find attractive (black and latino), but it's oh so very rare that I actually come across one in real life. They just don't do it for me.
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Give me a break. You cannot control or choose who you're attracted to. Sure there are some women of certain races I would find attractive (black and latino), but it's oh so very rare that I actually come across one in real life. They just don't do it for me.
yea, I know, some races have more cuties than others, not doubt. And it's your preference dude, but when people generalize entire races and say there are no hot asians, or no hot blacks. I'm like.......r we on the same planet here?
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
Humans all look the same in a cats eyes.

Things would be a lot easier if we all had one skin color.
Wouldn't that be boring as hell? Why the heck would you want everyone to look so similar just because some people have issues with people who are different; or to be frank, people who are unable to accept/understand people who aren't like them?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Wouldn't that be boring as hell? Why the heck would you want everyone to look so similar just because some people have issues with people who are different; or to be frank, people who are unable to accept/understand people who aren't like them?
Do all white people look similar? Do all black people look similar? Everyone being the same color wouldn't mean that everyone would look similar. But than again, what if. Think about the problems that would go away. I'm not going to start turning into Hitler and start yelling "kill the jews! we are the supreme race" because everyone being the same skin color just isn't possible. Especially sense everyone of us aren't purely white anymore.

My personal opinion: Interracial dating isn't wrong at all. If interracial dating is wrong, than so is interracial friendship. And I'd have to befriend all of my childhood friends which consisted of black, indian, peurto rican and mexican. I had few white friends. My first girlfriend was Asian. Sure, I was the only white person in our group of friends. But no one even cared until middle school when white kids started making fun of me because in their eyes, I thought I was black. Most of my friends were black. We all wore the same clothes. We listened to the same music.

Will Smith has the problem with "not being black enough". I had the problem with "not being white enough". Think of the classic story of the boy raised by wolves. The people who took me in when I was younger, made me one of their own, were black people. I didn't see skin colors. They still see me as one of them to this day. I grew up and I have to ask, what the hell happened to us?

Can a white woman date a black man? If you ask this, than you have to ask yourself. Can a fat guy date a skinny girl? Can red head date a blonde? Can a tall guy date a short girl? Can a human date another human?
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
there's a difference between thinking they're hot and actually wanting to have sex with them

I think Beyonce is hot but I have no sexual desire for her. I don't know why. It just isn't there.
 

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Originally posted by Page
Ok, I'll up the ante.

Would you marry and have kids with someone of a different race?
yeah

but sometimes ppl of diff races' beliefs and yadda yadda would interfere in a relationship like that... for example i know of this japanese girl i was into once, but her parents were legit crazy... in her culture the way they act is normal, but for me its crazy.

also i asked her if she could teach me kung fu and she started to cry....
 

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I'd never date a black biatch or introduce one to mom & pop. However, I've thrust my rod into a few of them. Some of them motherfvcker's are WILD! One of them was from Kenya, if I recall.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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