The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 9, 2002
- Messages
- 1,066
- Reaction score
- 3
- Age
- 41
Hahahhahahahahahahaha
That's just beautiful.
AS
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interracial dating
- Thread starter Page
- Start date
That's just beautiful.
AS
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
What a profound stance!
For why?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I'd marry outside of my race. I could careless what race I'm with, love goes beyond physical traits...well for some people anyway. Besides I'm biracial anyway (part african american part native american) I'll be damned if I'm going to go hunting for another attractive "hybrid" such as myself, there's a good chance I'd die alone.
I know looking beyond race is a difficult thing to do because being with someone who looks like you has been the standard for countless years but the enlightened mind should realize that people are people regardless of skin color.
I know looking beyond race is a difficult thing to do because being with someone who looks like you has been the standard for countless years but the enlightened mind should realize that people are people regardless of skin color.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 4, 2002
- Messages
- 4,366
- Reaction score
- 8
If you really think about it, isn't race a human construct?
It's just another way for humans to divide each other into neat little categories.
Many of the most fanatic racists are losers (ie. poor, bad with women, no social skills, etc) trying to validate themselves. "I'm part of the grand Aryan race, so I must be superior, even though I'm unemployed and live in my mum's basement!".
It's just another way for humans to divide each other into neat little categories.
Many of the most fanatic racists are losers (ie. poor, bad with women, no social skills, etc) trying to validate themselves. "I'm part of the grand Aryan race, so I must be superior, even though I'm unemployed and live in my mum's basement!".
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Humans all look the same in a cats eyes.
Things would be a lot easier if we all had one skin color.
Things would be a lot easier if we all had one skin color.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
please, can we just end this thread now? there is nothing we can do about race, the fact that we have to acknowledge interratial dating as a "do or don't" is an issue within it'self.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I don't think so; attraction is subjective. It's not as if he said that those races were inferior, just that he wasn't attracted to them. It wasn't even based of stereotypical misconceptions which I believe is the main factor for people choosing to segregate.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Give me a break. You cannot control or choose who you're attracted to. Sure there are some women of certain races I would find attractive (black and latino), but it's oh so very rare that I actually come across one in real life. They just don't do it for me.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
yea, I know, some races have more cuties than others, not doubt. And it's your preference dude, but when people generalize entire races and say there are no hot asians, or no hot blacks. I'm like.......r we on the same planet here?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't that be boring as hell? Why the heck would you want everyone to look so similar just because some people have issues with people who are different; or to be frank, people who are unable to accept/understand people who aren't like them?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Do all white people look similar? Do all black people look similar? Everyone being the same color wouldn't mean that everyone would look similar. But than again, what if. Think about the problems that would go away. I'm not going to start turning into Hitler and start yelling "kill the jews! we are the supreme race" because everyone being the same skin color just isn't possible. Especially sense everyone of us aren't purely white anymore.
My personal opinion: Interracial dating isn't wrong at all. If interracial dating is wrong, than so is interracial friendship. And I'd have to befriend all of my childhood friends which consisted of black, indian, peurto rican and mexican. I had few white friends. My first girlfriend was Asian. Sure, I was the only white person in our group of friends. But no one even cared until middle school when white kids started making fun of me because in their eyes, I thought I was black. Most of my friends were black. We all wore the same clothes. We listened to the same music.
Will Smith has the problem with "not being black enough". I had the problem with "not being white enough". Think of the classic story of the boy raised by wolves. The people who took me in when I was younger, made me one of their own, were black people. I didn't see skin colors. They still see me as one of them to this day. I grew up and I have to ask, what the hell happened to us?
Can a white woman date a black man? If you ask this, than you have to ask yourself. Can a fat guy date a skinny girl? Can red head date a blonde? Can a tall guy date a short girl? Can a human date another human?
yeah
but sometimes ppl of diff races' beliefs and yadda yadda would interfere in a relationship like that... for example i know of this japanese girl i was into once, but her parents were legit crazy... in her culture the way they act is normal, but for me its crazy.
also i asked her if she could teach me kung fu and she started to cry....
wowiehowie
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2005
- Messages
- 171
- Reaction score
- 0
I'd never date a black biatch or introduce one to mom & pop. However, I've thrust my rod into a few of them. Some of them motherfvcker's are WILD! One of them was from Kenya, if I recall.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.