The Antichrist_Star
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Hahahhahahahahahahaha
That's just beautiful.
AS
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Interracial dating
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That's just beautiful.
AS
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
What a profound stance!
For why?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I'd marry outside of my race. I could careless what race I'm with, love goes beyond physical traits...well for some people anyway. Besides I'm biracial anyway (part african american part native american) I'll be damned if I'm going to go hunting for another attractive "hybrid" such as myself, there's a good chance I'd die alone.
I know looking beyond race is a difficult thing to do because being with someone who looks like you has been the standard for countless years but the enlightened mind should realize that people are people regardless of skin color.
I know looking beyond race is a difficult thing to do because being with someone who looks like you has been the standard for countless years but the enlightened mind should realize that people are people regardless of skin color.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
diplomatic_lies
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If you really think about it, isn't race a human construct?
It's just another way for humans to divide each other into neat little categories.
Many of the most fanatic racists are losers (ie. poor, bad with women, no social skills, etc) trying to validate themselves. "I'm part of the grand Aryan race, so I must be superior, even though I'm unemployed and live in my mum's basement!".
It's just another way for humans to divide each other into neat little categories.
Many of the most fanatic racists are losers (ie. poor, bad with women, no social skills, etc) trying to validate themselves. "I'm part of the grand Aryan race, so I must be superior, even though I'm unemployed and live in my mum's basement!".
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Humans all look the same in a cats eyes.
Things would be a lot easier if we all had one skin color.
Things would be a lot easier if we all had one skin color.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
please, can we just end this thread now? there is nothing we can do about race, the fact that we have to acknowledge interratial dating as a "do or don't" is an issue within it'self.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's the biggest load of bull I've heard (well I didn't hear it).
If you can't find a single black/Asian girl that's hot, you've got something wrong with you.... :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I don't think so; attraction is subjective. It's not as if he said that those races were inferior, just that he wasn't attracted to them. It wasn't even based of stereotypical misconceptions which I believe is the main factor for people choosing to segregate.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Give me a break. You cannot control or choose who you're attracted to. Sure there are some women of certain races I would find attractive (black and latino), but it's oh so very rare that I actually come across one in real life. They just don't do it for me.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
yea, I know, some races have more cuties than others, not doubt. And it's your preference dude, but when people generalize entire races and say there are no hot asians, or no hot blacks. I'm like.......r we on the same planet here?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't that be boring as hell? Why the heck would you want everyone to look so similar just because some people have issues with people who are different; or to be frank, people who are unable to accept/understand people who aren't like them?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Do all white people look similar? Do all black people look similar? Everyone being the same color wouldn't mean that everyone would look similar. But than again, what if. Think about the problems that would go away. I'm not going to start turning into Hitler and start yelling "kill the jews! we are the supreme race" because everyone being the same skin color just isn't possible. Especially sense everyone of us aren't purely white anymore.
My personal opinion: Interracial dating isn't wrong at all. If interracial dating is wrong, than so is interracial friendship. And I'd have to befriend all of my childhood friends which consisted of black, indian, peurto rican and mexican. I had few white friends. My first girlfriend was Asian. Sure, I was the only white person in our group of friends. But no one even cared until middle school when white kids started making fun of me because in their eyes, I thought I was black. Most of my friends were black. We all wore the same clothes. We listened to the same music.
Will Smith has the problem with "not being black enough". I had the problem with "not being white enough". Think of the classic story of the boy raised by wolves. The people who took me in when I was younger, made me one of their own, were black people. I didn't see skin colors. They still see me as one of them to this day. I grew up and I have to ask, what the hell happened to us?
Can a white woman date a black man? If you ask this, than you have to ask yourself. Can a fat guy date a skinny girl? Can red head date a blonde? Can a tall guy date a short girl? Can a human date another human?
yeah
but sometimes ppl of diff races' beliefs and yadda yadda would interfere in a relationship like that... for example i know of this japanese girl i was into once, but her parents were legit crazy... in her culture the way they act is normal, but for me its crazy.
also i asked her if she could teach me kung fu and she started to cry....
wowiehowie
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I'd never date a black biatch or introduce one to mom & pop. However, I've thrust my rod into a few of them. Some of them motherfvcker's are WILD! One of them was from Kenya, if I recall.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.