"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interracial dating

Do you mix?

  • Yes

    Votes: 69 70.4%
  • No

    Votes: 12 12.2%
  • I've never had the opportunity/ never thought about it

    Votes: 13 13.3%
  • I'm not sure if I would or not

    Votes: 4 4.1%

  • Total voters
    98

DJ_in_making

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I want genetic variation....

Some say its unnatural. But it's as natural as you can get. Your offspring must have a variety of treats to ensure the survival of your species. I may not breed unless it is outside of my race. Mixed children have the healthiest immune systems out of everybody....... but I digress, the question was about dating
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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darth yoda

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
sigh.....not again
I know...

:rolleyes:

There is no way this won't turn into a flame war, and no one will change their opinions, so why bother with these threads?
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
Race mixing is a no-no around where I live.
These rednecks will shoot a n1gg3r.
Lemme guess,
Alabamer
Texas
Louisianer

wait..... why am i keeping this post alive?
 

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so I recently moved to the States....but am originally from india....
I havent yet approached any girls yet...but I was wondering if there is any racial preference of white girls towards white boy..or black with black etc etc....i.e. based on ethinicity and race....

this is one of the reasons why I dont approach girls here .....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I mix and I'd marry. I think mixed race kids are some of the prettiest kids around.
 

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My last four girls were all from different ethnic groups (Indian, latina, white, and Asian respectively). I didn't do it on purpose, I just don't have an objection to a cute girl whatever race she may be.

Oh, and thinktank...some white girls seem to like Indian guys alot. You can thank Harold & Kumar.
 

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thinktank1985 said:
so I recently moved to the States....but am originally from india....
I havent yet approached any girls yet...but I was wondering if there is any racial preference of white girls towards white boy..or black with black etc etc....i.e. based on ethinicity and race....

this is one of the reasons why I dont approach girls here .....
There are only a few universal truths. One of them being: White girls that drive Cadillacs like black guys...

:crackup:

seriously though, I'm very white (looking and culturally) and I have dated a few black girls. I will tell you that one of the black girls was the most non-complaining-about-everythingest girl I have ever known.

However, I don't much care for asian girls, even though they like me.
 
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