"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interracial dating

Do you mix?

  • Yes

    Votes: 69 70.4%
  • No

    Votes: 12 12.2%
  • I've never had the opportunity/ never thought about it

    Votes: 13 13.3%
  • I'm not sure if I would or not

    Votes: 4 4.1%

  • Total voters
    98

DJ_in_making

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I want genetic variation....

Some say its unnatural. But it's as natural as you can get. Your offspring must have a variety of treats to ensure the survival of your species. I may not breed unless it is outside of my race. Mixed children have the healthiest immune systems out of everybody....... but I digress, the question was about dating
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
sigh.....not again
I know...

:rolleyes:

There is no way this won't turn into a flame war, and no one will change their opinions, so why bother with these threads?
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
Race mixing is a no-no around where I live.
These rednecks will shoot a n1gg3r.
Lemme guess,
Alabamer
Texas
Louisianer

wait..... why am i keeping this post alive?
 

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so I recently moved to the States....but am originally from india....
I havent yet approached any girls yet...but I was wondering if there is any racial preference of white girls towards white boy..or black with black etc etc....i.e. based on ethinicity and race....

this is one of the reasons why I dont approach girls here .....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigjohnson

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I mix and I'd marry. I think mixed race kids are some of the prettiest kids around.
 

Leporello

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My last four girls were all from different ethnic groups (Indian, latina, white, and Asian respectively). I didn't do it on purpose, I just don't have an objection to a cute girl whatever race she may be.

Oh, and thinktank...some white girls seem to like Indian guys alot. You can thank Harold & Kumar.
 

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thinktank1985 said:
so I recently moved to the States....but am originally from india....
I havent yet approached any girls yet...but I was wondering if there is any racial preference of white girls towards white boy..or black with black etc etc....i.e. based on ethinicity and race....

this is one of the reasons why I dont approach girls here .....
There are only a few universal truths. One of them being: White girls that drive Cadillacs like black guys...

:crackup:

seriously though, I'm very white (looking and culturally) and I have dated a few black girls. I will tell you that one of the black girls was the most non-complaining-about-everythingest girl I have ever known.

However, I don't much care for asian girls, even though they like me.
 
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