"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bolond said:
So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
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How much money have you sent to this catfish?
 
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No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bolond said:
No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
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Yes...predictable...they lure you in, make all these plans and then there is always a last minute excuse.

OP, she is playing games and to tell you the truth it might be a "he". Sounds like a classic catfish.
 
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I look forward to an update tomorrow. She sounds way more forward than normal for a woman who hasn't even met you.

What kind of site is this? Escort site?
 
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Dear Boland, this is John oops I mean Jill. Sorry for not sending any crotch shots, I have money problems
Right now and when I get it all sorted out I will come to you and make all your dreams come true.o_O
 
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Bolond said:
No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
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So instead of sex all you got was a bunch of excuses. Soon she'll tell you her momma's sick and she needs money.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
It's classic catfish or some scam. This likely isn't a woman.
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Agreed. It's too convenient that she just happened to catch Covid the day they were going to meet up.

I've seen these scams play out before - it's all about keeping the guy on the line for as long as possible without ever actually meeting him. After saying "I love you" a few times it's time for the sob stories to start. Covid is the perfect excuse as it gives her another 2 weeks. Of course when that time ends she'll find some another excuse (I had to go visit my grandmother who is ill, etc).
 
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