"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bolond said:
So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
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How much money have you sent to this catfish?
 
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No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bolond said:
No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
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Yes...predictable...they lure you in, make all these plans and then there is always a last minute excuse.

OP, she is playing games and to tell you the truth it might be a "he". Sounds like a classic catfish.
 
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I look forward to an update tomorrow. She sounds way more forward than normal for a woman who hasn't even met you.

What kind of site is this? Escort site?
 
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Dear Boland, this is John oops I mean Jill. Sorry for not sending any crotch shots, I have money problems
Right now and when I get it all sorted out I will come to you and make all your dreams come true.o_O
 
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Bolond said:
No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
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So instead of sex all you got was a bunch of excuses. Soon she'll tell you her momma's sick and she needs money.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
It's classic catfish or some scam. This likely isn't a woman.
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Agreed. It's too convenient that she just happened to catch Covid the day they were going to meet up.

I've seen these scams play out before - it's all about keeping the guy on the line for as long as possible without ever actually meeting him. After saying "I love you" a few times it's time for the sob stories to start. Covid is the perfect excuse as it gives her another 2 weeks. Of course when that time ends she'll find some another excuse (I had to go visit my grandmother who is ill, etc).
 
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