"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So ive been mailing with this women. Got her number. She is Into me she wrote. We have been sexting a lot,she are so sexy! Ive been searching about her on internet,she wrote she is a nurse and wrote how how she works. I cant find her anywhere. She only wrote her first name...

In one day she Will visit me,we are going to ****. I found her on a legit sajt on the Internet. She has not been logged on since we started mailing,1,5 weeks ago.
She sends me ***** pics and other sexy pics.
She writes she wants to be with me.
How do i write to her and dnt **** it up IF she comes and see me??
How much money have you sent to this catfish?
 

Bolond

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No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No money sent of course.
She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
Yes...predictable...they lure you in, make all these plans and then there is always a last minute excuse.

OP, she is playing games and to tell you the truth it might be a "he". Sounds like a classic catfish.
 

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I look forward to an update tomorrow. She sounds way more forward than normal for a woman who hasn't even met you.

What kind of site is this? Escort site?
 

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Dear Boland, this is John oops I mean Jill. Sorry for not sending any crotch shots, I have money problems
Right now and when I get it all sorted out I will come to you and make all your dreams come true.o_O
 

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She is coming to my place tomorow,she wants that. Now she is writing about her maybe are corona sick. She did a Corona test today and Will get the reply early tomorow.

She wrote yesterday that she really wants to visit me. Now im not Sure but why blame it on Corona? She has not sent me any no yet but i suspect she wont come...
So instead of sex all you got was a bunch of excuses. Soon she'll tell you her momma's sick and she needs money.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's classic catfish or some scam. This likely isn't a woman.
Agreed. It's too convenient that she just happened to catch Covid the day they were going to meet up.

I've seen these scams play out before - it's all about keeping the guy on the line for as long as possible without ever actually meeting him. After saying "I love you" a few times it's time for the sob stories to start. Covid is the perfect excuse as it gives her another 2 weeks. Of course when that time ends she'll find some another excuse (I had to go visit my grandmother who is ill, etc).
 
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