"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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djweses89

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i hope these girls you"gaming" is someone that goes to your school or something not like in another state or something
 

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from experence, get girls in real life, get your friends to hook you up, do it in real life, the internet/myspace is not the way to go especially with hs girls. It really makes you look desprate, unless they are the ones trying to get you.
 

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yea, the live in my city and close to my neighborhood. out of state gamin is pointless.
Wrong. It really depends on the girl, and how much interest you can express on IM or the phone. I'm dating a girl 2500km away if that has any relation.

from experence, get girls in real life, get your friends to hook you up, do it in real life
Always the best way. Along with said above girl, I also date locally, so I'm not 'being stupid and waiting a long time to meet this girl that lives a country away' :)

Basically, it can work, my buddy met his fiance though my online dating experience, and I got some hookups all over the place, but never, NEVER rely on it as your primary dating base. ENSURE YOU SARGE LOCALLY AS WELL.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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djweses89

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haha never know could turn out like eurotrip (one of my favorites by the way)
 

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It's easy to meet girls online. Why wouldn't you do it? It won't get you experience with the front end of picking up but you can talk on the phone, go out with them, maybe get some action.

Don't skip all that because of some vague notions that it's not the most 'respectable' or 'skilled' way to get girls according to some website.
 

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any girl who isn't hesistant to meeting some guy on the internet is a dumba$$, especially with the pedophile upsurge going on nowadays

best thing to do is let her know for sure that you aren't some 60 year old warcraft player who's in the mood for rape
 
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