"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Internet chicks
- Thread starter Raikojo17
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BBX
Master Don Juan
Docs
Banned
Wrong. It really depends on the girl, and how much interest you can express on IM or the phone. I'm dating a girl 2500km away if that has any relation.
Always the best way. Along with said above girl, I also date locally, so I'm not 'being stupid and waiting a long time to meet this girl that lives a country away'
Basically, it can work, my buddy met his fiance though my online dating experience, and I got some hookups all over the place, but never, NEVER rely on it as your primary dating base. ENSURE YOU SARGE LOCALLY AS WELL.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't skip all that because of some vague notions that it's not the most 'respectable' or 'skilled' way to get girls according to some website.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
best thing to do is let her know for sure that you aren't some 60 year old warcraft player who's in the mood for rape