"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Internet chicks
- Thread starter Raikojo17
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BBX
Master Don Juan
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Wrong. It really depends on the girl, and how much interest you can express on IM or the phone. I'm dating a girl 2500km away if that has any relation.
Always the best way. Along with said above girl, I also date locally, so I'm not 'being stupid and waiting a long time to meet this girl that lives a country away'
Basically, it can work, my buddy met his fiance though my online dating experience, and I got some hookups all over the place, but never, NEVER rely on it as your primary dating base. ENSURE YOU SARGE LOCALLY AS WELL.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don't skip all that because of some vague notions that it's not the most 'respectable' or 'skilled' way to get girls according to some website.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
best thing to do is let her know for sure that you aren't some 60 year old warcraft player who's in the mood for rape