"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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- Thread starter Raikojo17
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Wrong. It really depends on the girl, and how much interest you can express on IM or the phone. I'm dating a girl 2500km away if that has any relation.
Always the best way. Along with said above girl, I also date locally, so I'm not 'being stupid and waiting a long time to meet this girl that lives a country away'
Basically, it can work, my buddy met his fiance though my online dating experience, and I got some hookups all over the place, but never, NEVER rely on it as your primary dating base. ENSURE YOU SARGE LOCALLY AS WELL.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't skip all that because of some vague notions that it's not the most 'respectable' or 'skilled' way to get girls according to some website.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
best thing to do is let her know for sure that you aren't some 60 year old warcraft player who's in the mood for rape