The Night
New Member
FYI I'm new to this. I was talking to a girl at a bar tonight for 2 minutes and a male friend comes over and grabs her arm. I introduced myself and he says "I dont care." and pulls her away. How should I have handled this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Was the girl drunk?
I've been in kind of the same situation as the "male friend" sometimes. The girl's drunk stupid, flirtatious but already in a relationship, and would be rather...'upset' if she did anything once she found out sober, and the longer she gets into the conversation the harder it is to tell her to lay off.
If the girl was sober, though, and the guy friend seemed like the jealous type, you should have just told him to piss off and that you were having a conversation with her.
I've been in kind of the same situation as the "male friend" sometimes. The girl's drunk stupid, flirtatious but already in a relationship, and would be rather...'upset' if she did anything once she found out sober, and the longer she gets into the conversation the harder it is to tell her to lay off.
If the girl was sober, though, and the guy friend seemed like the jealous type, you should have just told him to piss off and that you were having a conversation with her.
The Night
New Member
Good call scrumtulescence, she was drunk.
The Night
New Member
What is TD??
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
DUHHHHHH TD?!!!
TAP DANCING!!!!
Jay Reimenschneider
Don Juan
Re: AMOG
expand!!!!
looks like you're onto something here but you didn't write enough for me to learn anything.
expand!!!!
reyalp
Master Don Juan
i believe you mean expound.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
LOLZ, shezzler just hijacked your thread... now your going to get your ass beat for trying to pickup a drunk girl who doesn't know any better
AMOG is simple, do a search on it retard, learn how to do a little bit of work. Stop being lazy and learn something. We're not always going to be around to help you out...
Jay(attiqaaluk) you are pretty stupid, and you sound gay. Please smarten up, stop trying to seem cool, start learning something. Don't ask stupid questions anymore, and stop making comments that a 5 year old would laugh at.
TD is Tyler durden
Scrumtulesence, you are right, don't game drunk girls... don't game drunk, period. It's not a level to measure, it is a level of how lucky you can get, and nobody is here to learn how to get lucky, because it is impossible to teach.
The night, you should have walked away from her, as soon as you realized she was piss faced. You should have looked at her, and called the bouncer, or given the guy props for taking care of her, if he really was a friend.
The thing is "a male friend" coming over and grabbing her arm... I don't understand... is that your friend? Or hers?
AMOG is simple, do a search on it retard, learn how to do a little bit of work. Stop being lazy and learn something. We're not always going to be around to help you out...
Jay(attiqaaluk) you are pretty stupid, and you sound gay. Please smarten up, stop trying to seem cool, start learning something. Don't ask stupid questions anymore, and stop making comments that a 5 year old would laugh at.
TD is Tyler durden
Scrumtulesence, you are right, don't game drunk girls... don't game drunk, period. It's not a level to measure, it is a level of how lucky you can get, and nobody is here to learn how to get lucky, because it is impossible to teach.
The night, you should have walked away from her, as soon as you realized she was piss faced. You should have looked at her, and called the bouncer, or given the guy props for taking care of her, if he really was a friend.
The thing is "a male friend" coming over and grabbing her arm... I don't understand... is that your friend? Or hers?
Jay Reimenschneider
Don Juan
Are you having a bad night man?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.