The Night
New Member
FYI I'm new to this. I was talking to a girl at a bar tonight for 2 minutes and a male friend comes over and grabs her arm. I introduced myself and he says "I dont care." and pulls her away. How should I have handled this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Was the girl drunk?
I've been in kind of the same situation as the "male friend" sometimes. The girl's drunk stupid, flirtatious but already in a relationship, and would be rather...'upset' if she did anything once she found out sober, and the longer she gets into the conversation the harder it is to tell her to lay off.
If the girl was sober, though, and the guy friend seemed like the jealous type, you should have just told him to piss off and that you were having a conversation with her.
I've been in kind of the same situation as the "male friend" sometimes. The girl's drunk stupid, flirtatious but already in a relationship, and would be rather...'upset' if she did anything once she found out sober, and the longer she gets into the conversation the harder it is to tell her to lay off.
If the girl was sober, though, and the guy friend seemed like the jealous type, you should have just told him to piss off and that you were having a conversation with her.
The Night
New Member
Good call scrumtulescence, she was drunk.
The Night
New Member
What is TD??
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
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Jay Reimenschneider
Don Juan
Re: AMOG
expand!!!!
looks like you're onto something here but you didn't write enough for me to learn anything.
expand!!!!
reyalp
Master Don Juan
i believe you mean expound.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
LOLZ, shezzler just hijacked your thread... now your going to get your ass beat for trying to pickup a drunk girl who doesn't know any better
AMOG is simple, do a search on it retard, learn how to do a little bit of work. Stop being lazy and learn something. We're not always going to be around to help you out...
Jay(attiqaaluk) you are pretty stupid, and you sound gay. Please smarten up, stop trying to seem cool, start learning something. Don't ask stupid questions anymore, and stop making comments that a 5 year old would laugh at.
TD is Tyler durden
Scrumtulesence, you are right, don't game drunk girls... don't game drunk, period. It's not a level to measure, it is a level of how lucky you can get, and nobody is here to learn how to get lucky, because it is impossible to teach.
The night, you should have walked away from her, as soon as you realized she was piss faced. You should have looked at her, and called the bouncer, or given the guy props for taking care of her, if he really was a friend.
The thing is "a male friend" coming over and grabbing her arm... I don't understand... is that your friend? Or hers?
AMOG is simple, do a search on it retard, learn how to do a little bit of work. Stop being lazy and learn something. We're not always going to be around to help you out...
Jay(attiqaaluk) you are pretty stupid, and you sound gay. Please smarten up, stop trying to seem cool, start learning something. Don't ask stupid questions anymore, and stop making comments that a 5 year old would laugh at.
TD is Tyler durden
Scrumtulesence, you are right, don't game drunk girls... don't game drunk, period. It's not a level to measure, it is a level of how lucky you can get, and nobody is here to learn how to get lucky, because it is impossible to teach.
The night, you should have walked away from her, as soon as you realized she was piss faced. You should have looked at her, and called the bouncer, or given the guy props for taking care of her, if he really was a friend.
The thing is "a male friend" coming over and grabbing her arm... I don't understand... is that your friend? Or hers?
Jay Reimenschneider
Don Juan
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