“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interesting! Are you chubby? - Good news!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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In other words, muscular guys are the hottest, and chubby guys are the ugliest and therefore assumed to be the least likely to have other options with which to cheat in a relationship.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Good one.
That's just what I was thinking.
That's just what I was thinking.
izza
Master Don Juan
The real good news about being chubby is that it's a fantastic, fantastic opportunity to pick up women using personality alone.Obsidian said:
If you resemble a Greek god, picking up women is easy but requires less skill.
If you're decent looking, picking up women requires more personality.
If you're chubby, you've got to be the most interesting, loving - I dare say vulnerable - person in the room, or else your chances are limited. I have seen fat guys with 10 hot women, I have seen it done.
Being chubby is a great chance to strengthen the "personality muscle." And honestly, picking up women when I look bad is way more fun, and way more rewarding. It's a compliment not to how I look, but to ME.
We are bombarded with messages like "Look great, get women." "Dress in these clothes, get women." What I'm saying goes against several, media inundated fashion industries. Very, very few people realize the power of what I'm saying.
Izza
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
izza
Master Don Juan
YOU should do what you like best to doSamMalone said:
Personally, I exercise because I feel like sh!t otherwise lol. But actually, when I'm picking up women, I prefer to feel like I look terrible (I'm wearing a patched t-shirt, beatup walking shoes, and hole-ful khakis right now). It's pretty counterintuitive, but maybe you can understand why, at least on a rational level, from my post above.
I just love the challenge... because women at first are like "ugh" but then I'm just so damn interesting...
I am in a messed up place in my life right now, though. I'm just looking for friendship. I keep going out with women, and telling them oops let's be friends, the time isn't right.
My parents getting divorced is too much head-fvck for women, you know?
Izza