Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Interesting! Are you chubby? - Good news!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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In other words, muscular guys are the hottest, and chubby guys are the ugliest and therefore assumed to be the least likely to have other options with which to cheat in a relationship.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Good one.
That's just what I was thinking.
That's just what I was thinking.
izza
Master Don Juan
The real good news about being chubby is that it's a fantastic, fantastic opportunity to pick up women using personality alone.Obsidian said:
If you resemble a Greek god, picking up women is easy but requires less skill.
If you're decent looking, picking up women requires more personality.
If you're chubby, you've got to be the most interesting, loving - I dare say vulnerable - person in the room, or else your chances are limited. I have seen fat guys with 10 hot women, I have seen it done.
Being chubby is a great chance to strengthen the "personality muscle." And honestly, picking up women when I look bad is way more fun, and way more rewarding. It's a compliment not to how I look, but to ME.
We are bombarded with messages like "Look great, get women." "Dress in these clothes, get women." What I'm saying goes against several, media inundated fashion industries. Very, very few people realize the power of what I'm saying.
Izza
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
izza
Master Don Juan
YOU should do what you like best to doSamMalone said:
Personally, I exercise because I feel like sh!t otherwise lol. But actually, when I'm picking up women, I prefer to feel like I look terrible (I'm wearing a patched t-shirt, beatup walking shoes, and hole-ful khakis right now). It's pretty counterintuitive, but maybe you can understand why, at least on a rational level, from my post above.
I just love the challenge... because women at first are like "ugh" but then I'm just so damn interesting...
I am in a messed up place in my life right now, though. I'm just looking for friendship. I keep going out with women, and telling them oops let's be friends, the time isn't right.
My parents getting divorced is too much head-fvck for women, you know?
Izza