"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting! Are you chubby? - Good news!

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In other words, muscular guys are the hottest, and chubby guys are the ugliest and therefore assumed to be the least likely to have other options with which to cheat in a relationship.
 

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:crackup: Good one.
That's just what I was thinking.
 

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I fail to see the "news" in any of this. Did you actually learn something from that you didn't already know?

Btw, despite which one is the best, looks aren't actually that important, imo.
 

izza

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Obsidian said:
I fail to see the "news" in any of this. Did you actually learn something from that you didn't already know?

Btw, despite which one is the best, looks aren't actually that important, imo.
The real good news about being chubby is that it's a fantastic, fantastic opportunity to pick up women using personality alone.

If you resemble a Greek god, picking up women is easy but requires less skill.

If you're decent looking, picking up women requires more personality.

If you're chubby, you've got to be the most interesting, loving - I dare say vulnerable - person in the room, or else your chances are limited. I have seen fat guys with 10 hot women, I have seen it done.

Being chubby is a great chance to strengthen the "personality muscle." And honestly, picking up women when I look bad is way more fun, and way more rewarding. It's a compliment not to how I look, but to ME.

We are bombarded with messages like "Look great, get women." "Dress in these clothes, get women." What I'm saying goes against several, media inundated fashion industries. Very, very few people realize the power of what I'm saying.

Izza
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe we should work out and stay fit because it's healthy and makes US feel like we look good?
 

izza

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SamMalone said:
Maybe we should work out and stay fit because it's healthy and makes US feel like we look good?
YOU should do what you like best to do :)

Personally, I exercise because I feel like sh!t otherwise lol. But actually, when I'm picking up women, I prefer to feel like I look terrible (I'm wearing a patched t-shirt, beatup walking shoes, and hole-ful khakis right now). It's pretty counterintuitive, but maybe you can understand why, at least on a rational level, from my post above.

I just love the challenge... because women at first are like "ugh" but then I'm just so damn interesting... :D

I am in a messed up place in my life right now, though. I'm just looking for friendship. I keep going out with women, and telling them oops let's be friends, the time isn't right.

My parents getting divorced is too much head-fvck for women, you know?

Izza
 
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