"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intelligence: attractive or "nerdy"?

zerocelcius

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Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by zerocelcius
Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
They are mostly political books with a few biographies of political leaders sprinkled in. The only non-political ones are two Ayn Rand novels and a book about law school.

Thanks for the input everyone. It was informative and helped direct me to a rational decision.

Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
True.:D


Wow we have galt and francisco in one post! Where's dagny??
Well, Ragnar Danneskjold doesn't post here. ;)
 

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All in all if youre intelligent then why hide it from a girl, it will come out eventually... If the lady in question feels threatened to some extent by the level of your intellect (however that may be defined) then you have to ask is she right for you...
Personally I never dumb down for a girl and if she cant keep up the pace I move on...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
Apparently, he wasn't reading too carefully...tsk tsk :) (honestly though, if you read the book, you should've at least gotten one thing out of it!)
 
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