"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Intelligence: attractive or "nerdy"?

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Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who is John Galt?

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Originally posted by zerocelcius
Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
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They are mostly political books with a few biographies of political leaders sprinkled in. The only non-political ones are two Ayn Rand novels and a book about law school.

Thanks for the input everyone. It was informative and helped direct me to a rational decision.

Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
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True.:D


Wow we have galt and francisco in one post! Where's dagny??
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Well, Ragnar Danneskjold doesn't post here. ;)
 
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All in all if youre intelligent then why hide it from a girl, it will come out eventually... If the lady in question feels threatened to some extent by the level of your intellect (however that may be defined) then you have to ask is she right for you...
Personally I never dumb down for a girl and if she cant keep up the pace I move on...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
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Apparently, he wasn't reading too carefully...tsk tsk :) (honestly though, if you read the book, you should've at least gotten one thing out of it!)
 
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