"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Intelligence: attractive or "nerdy"?

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Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by zerocelcius
Ok lets really look at this?

Have you actually read those books? Yes: leave them out. Going to: hide them until you do.

WHY? Because if she has read them and asks you about them what than brainiac? YEA.. Something to think about.. Other than that quit worrying about what they think. Make them feel and they will forget all that thinking business.
They are mostly political books with a few biographies of political leaders sprinkled in. The only non-political ones are two Ayn Rand novels and a book about law school.

Thanks for the input everyone. It was informative and helped direct me to a rational decision.

Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
True.:D


Wow we have galt and francisco in one post! Where's dagny??
Well, Ragnar Danneskjold doesn't post here. ;)
 

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All in all if youre intelligent then why hide it from a girl, it will come out eventually... If the lady in question feels threatened to some extent by the level of your intellect (however that may be defined) then you have to ask is she right for you...
Personally I never dumb down for a girl and if she cant keep up the pace I move on...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Did you not learn this from the book that your username is derived from ?
Apparently, he wasn't reading too carefully...tsk tsk :) (honestly though, if you read the book, you should've at least gotten one thing out of it!)
 
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