"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think of it?

Ok to use a little? Never? Same rules as applied to phones?

I always add my friends, but I'm always sketchy with girls. In fact, I have only added one, but she never logs in.

I'm now not too sure how I should handle email addresses. I'd like to add them, but a part always tells me its the wrong move.

What do you do?

--iMat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vincent

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You don't.

Aim is not a Don Juans tool in any way, shape, or form.

I'm really getting tired of people trying to play it off as a "crutch". Its not, its a freiking wheel chair.


Aim != Don Juan
 

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Use it if you want to. GOddamnit, wanna know how to brush your teeth the don juan way???? I know how...:rolleyes:
 

jonny football hero

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short answer. No.

Just end up in the friendship zone. end of story.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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idiot_boyfriend

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I've found that it's harder to be ****y and funny online than on the phone or in person.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
short answer. No.

Just end up in the friendship zone. end of story.
that's an interesting take. recently I've been honing my c&f on AIM regularly. I was recently addicted to meeting girls online cause I was getting so good.....unfortunately, since theres so little pressure AND you have time to think about what you say before you say it, real life still needs work.
 

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Originally posted by rhsarrow17
that's an interesting take. recently I've been honing my c&f on AIM regularly. I was recently addicted to meeting girls online cause I was getting so good.....unfortunately, since theres so little pressure AND you have time to think about what you say before you say it, real life still needs work.
You are the example I've been waiting for!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rhsarrow17

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lmao

well just so you know, I dont meet girls online anymore as of about 2 weeks ago.

I know exactly what you meant by example. I was asking if you wanted me to elaborate on this online stuff for the people who are CURRENTLY wasting their time with it.
 

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do don juans sit down or stand up to pee?
 

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I pee when I poop.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IM sucks. I can't be myself on it. It has to be real life for me or nadda.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Porky
do don juans sit down or stand up to pee?
I personnally pee on my knees. That's the pimp way to do it.

Unless you can aim.


As to the question at hand, use whatever tool you want. AIM is the worse because you have NO information about the person. Phone is close behind when you only have the tone of voice. Face to face is always best because you have a maximum of information.
 

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well..there's always this problem about having the hots for girls with tyrants for parents... HS girls sumtimes have parents so strict if u wanna meet them out u can only do so like once or twice fortnightly (at least this applies to certain girls i know). although it sux but sumtimes..IM and phones are probably the few ways u have to keep in touch with these girls
 
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