"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Initiating dirty talk.

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Yesertday a girl I've been hanging out with texts me "we need to have sex tomorrow night ;)" To which I reply playfully.

This afternoon I texted her, "I can't wait to **** you tonight" hoping to get some fun, dirty talk going. She responded "I'm glad."

A let down. I was hoping for something more enthusiastic. I know this isn't a big deal in the grand scheme of things.
Do small things like this bother you guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They do, girls with this **** are hot and cold. They want it at times and others they get turned off by it, most girls never want to feel like a "slut". Generally unless I know a girl likes that I take the stance that unless she clearly initiates the dirty talk I playfully work my way up to it and use more inuendo then straight I'm going to **** you. Which for me is diffiuclt because its a turn on to go straight to I want to ****, but warming them up is the best bet imo and gets better results without risking turning them off. I think overall with dating this is the best strategy until you know the person well and have a re pore that makes that type of thing fine.
 
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Yeah, it's annoying but just phase it off. Don't let it get to your head. All she wanted to do was get your attention.

A lot of girls do this just to test you. If you get needy or worried, you lose.

If you maintain your frame, you win.
 
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Thanks fellas. Just what I needed to hear.
 
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To be fair your dirty talk was kind of... lame. "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I used to do erotic stories with one girl. Got her fired up pretty quick. When she came over she would just jump me. No hello or lets ****.
 
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I was more or less going for the wow factor but I can see where you would think it's lame if there was no pretext to having sex (which there was yesterday).
 
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I also imagined that where the girl at effects her response to the dirty text as well.

With men, you could be taking a sh*t and get aroused seeing a dirty text from a woman.

But with women I wonder if, say they're grocery shopping, they don't want to reciprocate the mood.
 
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It works much better in person, whispering it in their ear while they still are fully clothed...they will be soaking wet by the time you get to the panties
 
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Berom said:
I was more or less going for the wow factor but I can see where you would think it's lame if there was no pretext to having sex (which there was yesterday).
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I think what you were going for was something more authoritive and commanding like, "I'm going to f*ck your brains out tonight"

But what you said was, "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" which is almost like you're trying to verify she's still interested
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yewki said:
I think what you were going for was something more authoritive and commanding like, "I'm going to f*ck your brains out tonight"

But what you said was, "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" which is almost like you're trying to verify she's still interested
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Exactly. Thanks Yewki. That's what my intention was. I had the feeling I said it the wrong way. Thanks for validating this, haha.
 
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For those interested - here's an update.

I showed up at her place an hour later then I said I would, simply because I wanted to.
She was in her pajamas, no makeup, "tired and feeling a little sick" (all signs of her not being in the mood to fvck). We laid in her bed for a while and talked. I teased her quite a bit, gently being an ass to her stories and comments. She jokingly said, "jeez you're being a jerk." Then she laid on me with the light on. I told her "hey, if you're tired, turn the light off and we can sleep." Not but a couple minutes later I was fvcking her brains out. I fvcked her two more times before we fell asleep. She loved it.

Thanks for the advice fellas.
 
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It works much better in person, whispering it in their ear while they still are fully clothed...they will be soaking wet by the time you get to the panties

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