Initiating dirty talk.

[Berom]

Yesertday a girl I've been hanging out with texts me "we need to have sex tomorrow night " To which I reply playfully.

This afternoon I texted her, "I can't wait to **** you tonight" hoping to get some fun, dirty talk going. She responded "I'm glad."

A let down. I was hoping for something more enthusiastic. I know this isn't a big deal in the grand scheme of things.
Do small things like this bother you guys?

 

[FCB]

They do, girls with this **** are hot and cold. They want it at times and others they get turned off by it, most girls never want to feel like a "slut". Generally unless I know a girl likes that I take the stance that unless she clearly initiates the dirty talk I playfully work my way up to it and use more inuendo then straight I'm going to **** you. Which for me is diffiuclt because its a turn on to go straight to I want to ****, but warming them up is the best bet imo and gets better results without risking turning them off. I think overall with dating this is the best strategy until you know the person well and have a re pore that makes that type of thing fine.

 

[El Payaso]

Yeah, it's annoying but just phase it off. Don't let it get to your head. All she wanted to do was get your attention.

A lot of girls do this just to test you. If you get needy or worried, you lose.

If you maintain your frame, you win.

 

[Berom]

Thanks fellas. Just what I needed to hear.

 

[Yewki]

To be fair your dirty talk was kind of... lame. "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" lol.

 

[dustmuffin]

I used to do erotic stories with one girl. Got her fired up pretty quick. When she came over she would just jump me. No hello or lets ****.

 

[Berom]

I was more or less going for the wow factor but I can see where you would think it's lame if there was no pretext to having sex (which there was yesterday).

 

[Berom]

I also imagined that where the girl at effects her response to the dirty text as well.

With men, you could be taking a sh*t and get aroused seeing a dirty text from a woman.

But with women I wonder if, say they're grocery shopping, they don't want to reciprocate the mood.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It works much better in person, whispering it in their ear while they still are fully clothed...they will be soaking wet by the time you get to the panties

 

[Yewki]

I was more or less going for the wow factor but I can see where you would think it's lame if there was no pretext to having sex (which there was yesterday).

I think what you were going for was something more authoritive and commanding like, "I'm going to f*ck your brains out tonight"

But what you said was, "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" which is almost like you're trying to verify she's still interested

 

[Berom]

I think what you were going for was something more authoritive and commanding like, "I'm going to f*ck your brains out tonight"

But what you said was, "I can't wait to f*ck you tonight" which is almost like you're trying to verify she's still interested

Exactly. Thanks Yewki. That's what my intention was. I had the feeling I said it the wrong way. Thanks for validating this, haha.

 

[Berom]

For those interested - here's an update.

I showed up at her place an hour later then I said I would, simply because I wanted to.
She was in her pajamas, no makeup, "tired and feeling a little sick" (all signs of her not being in the mood to fvck). We laid in her bed for a while and talked. I teased her quite a bit, gently being an ass to her stories and comments. She jokingly said, "jeez you're being a jerk." Then she laid on me with the light on. I told her "hey, if you're tired, turn the light off and we can sleep." Not but a couple minutes later I was fvcking her brains out. I fvcked her two more times before we fell asleep. She loved it.

Thanks for the advice fellas.

 

[TheGambino]

It works much better in person, whispering it in their ear while they still are fully clothed...they will be soaking wet by the time you get to the panties

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[Bible_Belt]

One girl told me it turns her on when a guys tells her to shut up.