"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Initiate it .. HELP please

whatdude

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Ok I'm sure some of you have read my previous posts and you're all probably sick of me. Well, I'm sorry but I lack experience and not to be rude or anything, but I really don't have time to read the entire bible, so I ask you, the experts for help in certain areas, and so far you have done that for me, and I thank you.


My most recent problem is with my girlfriend. We have been together for 6 months now and we have had sex maybe like 20 times. Yea... not enough. When I first met her she came off as this nympho who absolutely wanted it... and I didn't give it to her at first then eventually I had to. Well, ever since then she has always been the initiator. She is the one who will always start the foreplay or whatever you wanna call it.

I do have premature ejaculation problems, but that doesn't mean I can't keep going.. she just doesn't want to because it hurts her inside because I have already came. She has had part of her cervix removed years ago... and she claims that is why it hurts. So I guess I will never get to f*ck her twice in one day, which is the least that I want. I want it like 10 times a day, but sex on demand is impossible unless you watch porn with a fleshlight. haha...

Anyway, to get to my question, I need some serious help and information on how to initiate sex. She says that I need to make her to want me. But I just don't know how to go about doing that exactly. I'm not suave I guess. But every single time that we're at her house ALONE... she ends up watching soaps, drinking coffee, falling asleep, reading a magazine or claims that she doesn't feel well. And that is like almost every time we're alone. She is the biggest f*cking tease man, I'm always leaving with a massive erection and feeling pissed off because I didn't get my d*ck wet... and it blows. Oh and she works a lot too and we both go to college. So we barely have any time with one another anyway.

So what I'm getting at in this f*cking novel that I've just typed is PLEASE HELP ME BE THE INITIATOR....thanks guys, I'd appreciate it. And sorry this is so long.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrRuckus

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fcuking die you prick

i'm too lazy to read the bible; i want you to spoon feed me.

and you're with a girl that won't put out. wtf grow some goddamn balls then shoot yourself. at least have that much pity on yourself
 

Evo-Psych

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Search for the forum for Last Minute Resistance or LMR and see what you can find.

It sounds like you might have bigger problems than a lack of sex if she spends her time with you watching soaps or reading. Do you spend all your time together? If so, STOP and get your own life. Work on yourself and pursue your passions.

When it comes to initiation lead her to sex emotionally. Start out kissing her passionately not little pecks or smooches. Kiss her like you really want her. Then take her by the hand and take her into the bedroom or start undressing her in the middle of the kitchen. Keep escalating the making out and be "dominate." I don't mean rape her or not to stop if she says no, but just assume she wants you and she will tell you if she doesn't.
 

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You don't have time to read the bible?

You can't make people like you. What your GF says is not important. She doesn't want to have sex with you is what is important. Nothing you do will change this. Continue this relationship of convienence if you like...

And stop taking the victim role.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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