"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Initiate it .. HELP please

whatdude

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Ok I'm sure some of you have read my previous posts and you're all probably sick of me. Well, I'm sorry but I lack experience and not to be rude or anything, but I really don't have time to read the entire bible, so I ask you, the experts for help in certain areas, and so far you have done that for me, and I thank you.


My most recent problem is with my girlfriend. We have been together for 6 months now and we have had sex maybe like 20 times. Yea... not enough. When I first met her she came off as this nympho who absolutely wanted it... and I didn't give it to her at first then eventually I had to. Well, ever since then she has always been the initiator. She is the one who will always start the foreplay or whatever you wanna call it.

I do have premature ejaculation problems, but that doesn't mean I can't keep going.. she just doesn't want to because it hurts her inside because I have already came. She has had part of her cervix removed years ago... and she claims that is why it hurts. So I guess I will never get to f*ck her twice in one day, which is the least that I want. I want it like 10 times a day, but sex on demand is impossible unless you watch porn with a fleshlight. haha...

Anyway, to get to my question, I need some serious help and information on how to initiate sex. She says that I need to make her to want me. But I just don't know how to go about doing that exactly. I'm not suave I guess. But every single time that we're at her house ALONE... she ends up watching soaps, drinking coffee, falling asleep, reading a magazine or claims that she doesn't feel well. And that is like almost every time we're alone. She is the biggest f*cking tease man, I'm always leaving with a massive erection and feeling pissed off because I didn't get my d*ck wet... and it blows. Oh and she works a lot too and we both go to college. So we barely have any time with one another anyway.

So what I'm getting at in this f*cking novel that I've just typed is PLEASE HELP ME BE THE INITIATOR....thanks guys, I'd appreciate it. And sorry this is so long.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fcuking die you prick

i'm too lazy to read the bible; i want you to spoon feed me.

and you're with a girl that won't put out. wtf grow some goddamn balls then shoot yourself. at least have that much pity on yourself
 

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Search for the forum for Last Minute Resistance or LMR and see what you can find.

It sounds like you might have bigger problems than a lack of sex if she spends her time with you watching soaps or reading. Do you spend all your time together? If so, STOP and get your own life. Work on yourself and pursue your passions.

When it comes to initiation lead her to sex emotionally. Start out kissing her passionately not little pecks or smooches. Kiss her like you really want her. Then take her by the hand and take her into the bedroom or start undressing her in the middle of the kitchen. Keep escalating the making out and be "dominate." I don't mean rape her or not to stop if she says no, but just assume she wants you and she will tell you if she doesn't.
 

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You don't have time to read the bible?

You can't make people like you. What your GF says is not important. She doesn't want to have sex with you is what is important. Nothing you do will change this. Continue this relationship of convienence if you like...

And stop taking the victim role.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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