"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Initiate it .. HELP please

whatdude

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2006
Messages
79
Reaction score
0
Ok I'm sure some of you have read my previous posts and you're all probably sick of me. Well, I'm sorry but I lack experience and not to be rude or anything, but I really don't have time to read the entire bible, so I ask you, the experts for help in certain areas, and so far you have done that for me, and I thank you.


My most recent problem is with my girlfriend. We have been together for 6 months now and we have had sex maybe like 20 times. Yea... not enough. When I first met her she came off as this nympho who absolutely wanted it... and I didn't give it to her at first then eventually I had to. Well, ever since then she has always been the initiator. She is the one who will always start the foreplay or whatever you wanna call it.

I do have premature ejaculation problems, but that doesn't mean I can't keep going.. she just doesn't want to because it hurts her inside because I have already came. She has had part of her cervix removed years ago... and she claims that is why it hurts. So I guess I will never get to f*ck her twice in one day, which is the least that I want. I want it like 10 times a day, but sex on demand is impossible unless you watch porn with a fleshlight. haha...

Anyway, to get to my question, I need some serious help and information on how to initiate sex. She says that I need to make her to want me. But I just don't know how to go about doing that exactly. I'm not suave I guess. But every single time that we're at her house ALONE... she ends up watching soaps, drinking coffee, falling asleep, reading a magazine or claims that she doesn't feel well. And that is like almost every time we're alone. She is the biggest f*cking tease man, I'm always leaving with a massive erection and feeling pissed off because I didn't get my d*ck wet... and it blows. Oh and she works a lot too and we both go to college. So we barely have any time with one another anyway.

So what I'm getting at in this f*cking novel that I've just typed is PLEASE HELP ME BE THE INITIATOR....thanks guys, I'd appreciate it. And sorry this is so long.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
fcuking die you prick

i'm too lazy to read the bible; i want you to spoon feed me.

and you're with a girl that won't put out. wtf grow some goddamn balls then shoot yourself. at least have that much pity on yourself
 

Evo-Psych

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2006
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Search for the forum for Last Minute Resistance or LMR and see what you can find.

It sounds like you might have bigger problems than a lack of sex if she spends her time with you watching soaps or reading. Do you spend all your time together? If so, STOP and get your own life. Work on yourself and pursue your passions.

When it comes to initiation lead her to sex emotionally. Start out kissing her passionately not little pecks or smooches. Kiss her like you really want her. Then take her by the hand and take her into the bedroom or start undressing her in the middle of the kitchen. Keep escalating the making out and be "dominate." I don't mean rape her or not to stop if she says no, but just assume she wants you and she will tell you if she doesn't.
 

flexion_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2003
Messages
1,617
Reaction score
10
Age
56
You don't have time to read the bible?

You can't make people like you. What your GF says is not important. She doesn't want to have sex with you is what is important. Nothing you do will change this. Continue this relationship of convienence if you like...

And stop taking the victim role.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top