“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Initiate it .. HELP please

whatdude

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Ok I'm sure some of you have read my previous posts and you're all probably sick of me. Well, I'm sorry but I lack experience and not to be rude or anything, but I really don't have time to read the entire bible, so I ask you, the experts for help in certain areas, and so far you have done that for me, and I thank you.


My most recent problem is with my girlfriend. We have been together for 6 months now and we have had sex maybe like 20 times. Yea... not enough. When I first met her she came off as this nympho who absolutely wanted it... and I didn't give it to her at first then eventually I had to. Well, ever since then she has always been the initiator. She is the one who will always start the foreplay or whatever you wanna call it.

I do have premature ejaculation problems, but that doesn't mean I can't keep going.. she just doesn't want to because it hurts her inside because I have already came. She has had part of her cervix removed years ago... and she claims that is why it hurts. So I guess I will never get to f*ck her twice in one day, which is the least that I want. I want it like 10 times a day, but sex on demand is impossible unless you watch porn with a fleshlight. haha...

Anyway, to get to my question, I need some serious help and information on how to initiate sex. She says that I need to make her to want me. But I just don't know how to go about doing that exactly. I'm not suave I guess. But every single time that we're at her house ALONE... she ends up watching soaps, drinking coffee, falling asleep, reading a magazine or claims that she doesn't feel well. And that is like almost every time we're alone. She is the biggest f*cking tease man, I'm always leaving with a massive erection and feeling pissed off because I didn't get my d*ck wet... and it blows. Oh and she works a lot too and we both go to college. So we barely have any time with one another anyway.

So what I'm getting at in this f*cking novel that I've just typed is PLEASE HELP ME BE THE INITIATOR....thanks guys, I'd appreciate it. And sorry this is so long.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrRuckus

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fcuking die you prick

i'm too lazy to read the bible; i want you to spoon feed me.

and you're with a girl that won't put out. wtf grow some goddamn balls then shoot yourself. at least have that much pity on yourself
 

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Search for the forum for Last Minute Resistance or LMR and see what you can find.

It sounds like you might have bigger problems than a lack of sex if she spends her time with you watching soaps or reading. Do you spend all your time together? If so, STOP and get your own life. Work on yourself and pursue your passions.

When it comes to initiation lead her to sex emotionally. Start out kissing her passionately not little pecks or smooches. Kiss her like you really want her. Then take her by the hand and take her into the bedroom or start undressing her in the middle of the kitchen. Keep escalating the making out and be "dominate." I don't mean rape her or not to stop if she says no, but just assume she wants you and she will tell you if she doesn't.
 

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You don't have time to read the bible?

You can't make people like you. What your GF says is not important. She doesn't want to have sex with you is what is important. Nothing you do will change this. Continue this relationship of convienence if you like...

And stop taking the victim role.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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