"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
****ing hard question
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
gongxia649
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hheheheheNatch said:
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i called her back. i admit im a AFCblinkwatt said:
gongxia649
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i just laughed.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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So??gongxia649 said:
She will be happy and you will have openly disrespected your mother! I don't see how that would be a good trade off. I would have told her i'd save my mother first... she can take that any way she wants to!
HAHAHAHHAHA! That's hilarious ;-)gongxia649 said:
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This is the truth. Even her own mother would agree.gongxia649 said:
"I would save your mothers little girl, I know she would respect me for saving you."
gongxia649 said:
Why is your gf asking you about my mom?
ok so i know what you really meant.
"yeaaa. i'm not answering that."
Then if she gets mad who cares? What kind of retarded person expects answer to questions like that?