"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
****ing hard question
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
gongxia649
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hheheheheNatch said:
gongxia649
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i called her back. i admit im a AFCblinkwatt said:
gongxia649
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i just laughed.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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So??gongxia649 said:
She will be happy and you will have openly disrespected your mother! I don't see how that would be a good trade off. I would have told her i'd save my mother first... she can take that any way she wants to!
HAHAHAHHAHA! That's hilarious ;-)gongxia649 said:
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This is the truth. Even her own mother would agree.gongxia649 said:
"I would save your mothers little girl, I know she would respect me for saving you."
gongxia649 said:
Why is your gf asking you about my mom?
ok so i know what you really meant.
"yeaaa. i'm not answering that."
Then if she gets mad who cares? What kind of retarded person expects answer to questions like that?