"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
****ing hard question
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
gongxia649
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hheheheheNatch said:
gongxia649
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i called her back. i admit im a AFCblinkwatt said:
gongxia649
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i just laughed.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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So??gongxia649 said:
She will be happy and you will have openly disrespected your mother! I don't see how that would be a good trade off. I would have told her i'd save my mother first... she can take that any way she wants to!
HAHAHAHHAHA! That's hilarious ;-)gongxia649 said:
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This is the truth. Even her own mother would agree.gongxia649 said:
"I would save your mothers little girl, I know she would respect me for saving you."
gongxia649 said:
Why is your gf asking you about my mom?
ok so i know what you really meant.
"yeaaa. i'm not answering that."
Then if she gets mad who cares? What kind of retarded person expects answer to questions like that?