Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hheheheheNatch said:Damn! I thought this was a question about ****ing hard. In whcih case I'dve said I was all for it.
i called her back. i admit im a AFCblinkwatt said:Who cares,her hanging up the phone was a test by her. I hope you didnt call her back.
The only C + F comeback I can think of is saying "Why one,Id save both of you,Im just that good".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So??gongxia649 said:according to my friends. they told me i should have said i will save her first, then she will be happy.
HAHAHAHHAHA! That's hilarious ;-)gongxia649 said:now she told me. dont come to see me till you save 100k
This is the truth. Even her own mother would agree.gongxia649 said:according to my friends. they told me i should have said i will save her first, then she will be happy.
gongxia649 said:if gf ask me if your mom and her is drawning in the water, who will you save first.