Inferiority

[Gripped]

Dude you're going to look back in a year's time and think to yourself "Wow, I really was a pvssy back then". You can analyse this as much as you like but in the end, everything comes down to you taking action. There's zero need to analyse this as much as you have, it won't help. You've recognised and admitted the problem, now get down to some hard graft and overcome it. It's not easy, it won't be quick but you'll be damn better for it.

But what does this graft entail? You see I analyse for two reasons; to pinpoint my specific problems and because I find it fascinating. If I am given the advice of "manning up" or to simply "go to the gym" it is too general. I don't feel it is helpful, I could work those out with ease myself. I do see your point in that over analyzing specific situations does detract from social confidence in the moment of occurrence. However I feel personal reflection of ones emotional and mental activity is not harmful as identifying damaging thought processes will help to eradicate them and hence promote growth. This is essentially me attempting to deal with what exactly stops me from "manning up".

 

[NorwegianDJ]

But what does this graft entail? You see I analyse for two reasons; to pinpoint my specific problems and because I find it fascinating. If I am given the advice of "manning up" or to simply "go to the gym" it is too general. I don't feel it is helpful, I could work those out with ease myself. I do see your point in that over analyzing specific situations does detract from social confidence in the moment of occurrence. However I feel personal reflection of ones emotional and mental activity is not harmful as identifying damaging thought processes will help to eradicate them and hence promote growth. This is essentially me attempting to deal with what exactly stops me from "manning up".

You lack leverage. You'll find it elsewhere, not in your analysis.

This analysing is not preventing you from taking action; you simply choose not to take action.

It's all on you. Always has been; always will be.

 

[Gripped]

You lack leverage. You'll find it elsewhere, not in your analysis.

This analysing is not preventing you from taking action; you simply choose not to take action.

It's all on you. Always has been; always will be.

Carpe Diem

http://media-cache-ec3.pinterest.com/upload/102316222754364689_TsSMRRj6_b.jpg

 

[Gripped]

Certainly not my insight but my words.

Snippet of wisdom:

There are those who deal in problems and those who deal in solutions.
The man who is solution focused ambles around looking for magic beans.
The man who is problem focused sees what blocks him from greatness and obliterates it.