"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inexperienced but not that shy

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This girl I'm working my game on doesn't get a lot of attention from guys so she's pretty inexperienced. But, she's not a shy girl in general, she just doesn't know anything about the male-female dynamic. Should I apply the same rules as a typical S-I girl? If not, how should I handle her? Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
 
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I bet she would be really impressed if you were to "show her" the ropes. It would show maturity, which is a very large turn on to girls mostly.
 
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Originally posted by blienk
It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
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Amen.
You want to be her boyfriend, not her 'experiment' or her obsession. It's a fine line.

Behave as you normally would. If she's interested in you, then nothing needs to be changed from how you normally would be.
 
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